For many people, seeing a psychic is a one-time bucket list item that is indulged in while on vacation or having a party. Many bachelorette parties have trooped into their local palm reader’s shop to spend an evening celebrating a final night of freedom. But for others, visiting a psychic is as serious an occasion as seeing a doctor. Visitors seek out palm readers, tarot interpreters, mediums, or psychics of other nature to offer them healing, guidance, or advice.
But how do you know when it’s time to see a psychic? With a doctor of medicine, painful symptoms or reduced health can be great clues to make an appointment. Here are some signs that you may need to schedule yourself some time with your psychic advisor:
A major change has recently happened.
If you frequent the psychic’s office, studio, or shop more than a few times a year, you may want to consider staying home if nothing has really changed in your life recently. For most people, it would be a waste of money and time to see a psychic for guidance or advice if you are in the same career, the same relationship, the same general state of mental and physical health, or have experienced no other major change.
Additionally, if you’ve visited a psychic for the same topic more than once, it may be time to let a natural course unfold. For example, if you’ve been single for many years, and have visited a psychic about this situation on multiple occasions, you likely won’t hear anything new if you ask about your love life again. You know the situation, and anything holding you back in the situation, and you’ve heard all that your psychic can tell you about it.
You know why you are visiting a psychic.
While there is certainly something to be said for visiting a new psychic with an open mind and no expectations, future visits will be most helpful if you have a reason to visit. Remember that too-specific questions don’t often work for tarot readings or palm readings (“On what day next month will I meet my soul mate?”) General questions focused on you and your own behavior are best. (“What can I do to attract more positive people into my life so that I might meet my soul mate?”)
Your reason doesn’t need to be very specific. You may want to receive understanding and validation for a recent feeling; obtain insight into a new situation; receive guidance on a major decision; or simply gain a better understanding of your path in life. In any case, having a general idea of your focus means that you’re ready to visit a psychic.
You have identified the right type of psychic service.
Just as you wouldn’t go to a dermatologist when you need an appendix removed, you should not assume that all psychics are the same. If you are wondering if it’s time to visit a psychic, take some time to find the right kind of service. A medium, for example, is a psychic who has some connection or ability to communicate with those who have passed on. Tarot cards and palm reading can be used to find new ways to approach situations or problems.
You feel comfortable with the decision to see a psychic.
Visiting a psychic is often like seeing a therapist. Though you may not reveal any personal information about yourself, and the psychic may only offer you a few guiding phrases or words as they read tarot symbols or perform other techniques, you will be going through a great revelation inside yourself. Behaviors, situations, and new paths will become clear to you based on what the psychic shares. You may leave feeling as though you’ve just had an intense therapy session.
For this reason, it’s important to feel comfortable before you visit a psychic. You should be relaxed and ready to accept any revelations that come through the psychic. Some psychics may have trouble giving a reading if you are too tense or nervous, so it’s in everyone’s best interest that you take the time to become calm about the visit.
How Often Should You Visit a Psychic?
All psychics will have a different opinion on this question. Some insist that once or twice a year is plenty, while others open their doors to the same clients every week. If you’ve gone through the four questions above and believe you are ready for a psychic reading, don’t hold yourself back from seeking out help and guidance.